Changing something in your life doesn’t have to be complicated.
It requires thought, focus on the moment and the ability postpone immediate gratification.
Step One: Thought
What is is that you want to change. Why do you want to change it? And, most importantly, what will be the results in your life if you don’t change it? Lastly, what will be the benefits if you do change it?
Example: If you procrastinate writing, you know that your novel won’t get done, you’ll feel like crap and you won’t be able to live the luxurious life that all us published author live. On the other hand if you finish the novel think of the sense of accomplishment and all the riches you’re guaranteed!
Step Two: Focus on the moment
Failure comes in nanaoseconds not over long periods of time. If you’re scheduled to write at 7 am before work focus on your thought process and behavior at 6:59 am. Are there excuses running around your noggin? Have you decided to clean the toilet at 6:57 and are rationalizing that that is more important?
Stop the bullshit! It’s 7 am and it’s time to write.
Step Three: Postpone Immediate Gratification
If you can get a black belt in this you’ll accomplish anything you want. Practice postponing gratification for no other reason than to get good at it. Don’t eat the candy bar, don’t watch Morning Joe instead of writing and don’t sleep late.
Be a long term hedonist and go after the cool things that accomplishment brings.